I get asked this question all the time and before I give the person an answer, I always ask an additional question: Do you want the truth, or do you want me to lie to you :? She might just really like clothing that actually fits her broad shoulders, or pants with pockets and shoes without heels. There's no guarantee that if you go to place full of homosexual women, that they will be any more receptive to you flirting with them or trying to pick them up than anywhere else - women are all too different! Does she smile at you? Is she holding eye contact just a little bit longer?
Ask Anna: I thought I was bisexual, but am I actually a lesbian? - Chicago Tribune
Am I a lesbian? If you’re not sure, here’s some of the signs
I know that I am a lesbian. I dream of being with a woman. However, I am married with one child. I love my husband, and I believe he knows in his heart I am gay. I struggle with what I am doing.
Lesbian 101: How to tell if that girl is gay
Your sexual orientation is a core element of your personality. It is an aspect of you that defines how you interact with other people and how you define yourself. Sometimes people have a hard time figuring out their sexual orientation. It can be confusing.
But the real question is, how can you tell if she's NOT a lesbian? Don't fret, my confused little lez. You're in the right place. I'm a pretty talentless, year-old lesbian, who struggles with many things in life.